From two families to a Saturday-night respite practice.
A 900-member suburban church had three families raising adult children with significant intellectual disabilities. The parents — most in their 60s — hadn't been to an evening service together in over a decade. No one was asking why.
We ran a 6-week Listening engagement, mapped the actual caregiver load, designed a monthly respite + worship rhythm, and trained a supervised lay-volunteer team using a trauma-informed protocol.
Within nine months: 11 IDD families participating, a waiting list of 6, a trained respite team of 22 volunteers, and the church's first-ever caregiver sabbath retreat. Two adjacent congregations are now adopting the same playbook.